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Chair of Georgia Filkcon; musician, songwriter, essayist & dilettante-at-large. Almost certainly not what you expect. (they/them)

But nothing hides the colour of the lights that shine

Today is National Coming Out Day.  According to Wikipedia:

National Coming Out Day (NCOD) is an internationally observed1 civil awareness day celebrating individuals who publicly identify as bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender—coming out regarding one’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity being akin to a cultural rite of passage for LGBT people. The day is observed annually by members of the LGBT community and allies on October 11.

I am bisexual.  I have known this for a very long time.  Now you do too.

Also:  happy weekend!


  1. Making the word national rather reductive, but never mind… 

But I wouldn’t want to paint it…

Things are moving along nicely with the preparations for moving.  With luck, we’ll be able to actually move our computers down this weekend and start actually residing in our new residence.  I’ve been bringing down small carloads of stuff during my daily commute1, and taking advantage of my parking space in the building.

I had called to set up cable and internet service, and they told me I’d need to actually go to one of their offices and pick up the CableCARD that would allow my TiVo to act as a cable box, because they don’t ship those by mail.  No problem, the nearest office is just a few miles from my office, so I  popped up there during lunch.

I was impressed by their waiting area, which had a ticket system rather than making people stand in a serpentine line.  And there were little computer stations, so I spent some time reading a couple of news sites while waiting.  Finally, they called my number and I went up to the counter.  The young lady behind the counter looked vaguely familiar to me, but I couldn’t place her so I shrugged it off and told her why I was there.

While collecting my information, she noted my phone number (which is still my old 678 number, because I’ve had no real reason to change it) and asked if I was from Georgia.  I told her I’d recently moved here from Atlanta.

“I used to live in Atlanta too!”
“Really, what part?”
“John’s Creek.2
“No kidding?  I lived in Alpharetta.”
“Oh, cool.  I worked at the Comcast location in Alpharetta, over on Main Street.”
“*That’s* where I knew you from!”

Seriously, what are the odds?

 


  1. And just today, had the first thing to break in the course of the move. *sigh* 

  2. Alpharetta and John’s Creek are right next to each other. 

Smile and grin at the change all around

I had been doing a pretty good job of rebooting my blog back in June, but I fell off again for a variety of reasons. The early part of July was a pretty bad time for a number of reasons, some inside my head and some outside.1 I went to Nerdtacular in Salt Lake City for the second year in a row, and I had a good time;  the following several weekends were taken up with a variety of out-of-town visitors, which brought us to early August, at which point we entered a period of unexpected flux. Very positive flux, mind you, but flux which made it hard to figure out how to talk about what was going on, so I kept waiting for it to settle and figure out how things were going to play out. Now that it has, here’s the news…2

  • One of our houseguests, happyfunpaul, is now dating our housemate, runnerwolf3
  • Said housemate is moving to Boston to be closer to him, and will, therefore, no longer be our housemate.
  • As a result, kitanzi and I are moving to a new apartment in Seattle.
  • Everyone’s joy quotient has been raised.4

As early as a month ago, we weren’t sure what the timeline was going to be, but as things stand now, we will all be completely out of the Redmond apartment by October 20th, when our lease ends. runnerwolf is heading out to Boston prior to OVFF, and will either simply move at that time, or else return here for a short period before making her transition to the east coast.

Yesterday, I put an application and deposit on an apartment near my office. Astonishingly near my office. Could not be closer to my office without actually working from home near my office. Today, they accepted our application, and we should be able to take possession of the unit by next Friday, which gives us a full month to affect the move.. It’s a very nice 1 BR flat that is probably roughly the same size as the part of the space in the current flat that we’re actually using, and my commute will be reduced from 2-3 hours on the bus every day to a pleasant stroll down the street.  Hopefully, it will be a bit less remote from various people that we’d like to socialise with, as well.5

The next month will be spent packing and shifting things, and we’ll probably do the big lift once we know the Internet is up and working at the new place (since kitanzi works from home, its essential that the Internet be up and working the day we move in). We should be nicely settled in before it’s time to fly to Ohio for OVFF.

So what’s new in your world?


  1. At this point, I’m just going to let that go with a vague wave of my hand.  I’m feeling much better of late. 

  2. Pending future revision, but this is looking like the plan, now… 

  3. Surprised, weren’t you? 

  4. Joy Quotient is my New Order cover band. 

  5. Ironically, a couple of my friends — Bill and Brittany, who lived in Redmond when we first met — moved out of the neighbourhood just before we moved in.  I found out the other day that Bill’s brother and HIS wife, whom I met at Nerdtacular,  have just moved into Redmond as we are about to leave it.   It’s a small world, but I wouldn’t want to paint it. 

We’ve got a life here…

Nine years ago, I walked into a courtroom in Atlanta, and walked out married to kitanzi.  On that day, I had only one lingering question.

“How on Earth did I get this lucky?”

I never have found the answer to that, but I still have the question, and I hope I always will.

Happy anniversary, sweetheart.

Hold On World ‘Cause I’m Not Jumping Off

Today is my birthday!  In addition to being the anniversary of my debut onto the world stage, it is also a day for commemorating many other notable events.

  • June 25th is the birthday of Eric Blair, better known to the world as Animal Farm author George Orwell. 2013 is his 110th Birthday, In fact. It’s interesting to see that nearly 30 years after the events of his seminal work 1984, our society is still actively exploring the future he envisioned.
  • June 25th is also the Birthday of Lord Louis Mountbatten, Broadway directory George Abbott, architect Antoni Gaudí, and King Crimson guitarist Ian McDonald,
  • Today in 1876, Lt. Col. Custer and the 210 men of U.S. 7th Cavalry were killed by Sioux and Cheyenne Indians at Little Big Horn in Montana, an event is known as “Custer’s Last Stand.”
  • On this day in 1967, the Beatles recorded the song All You Need Is Love in front of 400 million people during a worldwide television broadcast. This was one I hadn’t known about, and I think it’s really, really cool.
  • In 841, Charles the Bald and Louis the German defeated Lothar at Fontenay.1
  • On this day in 1178, five monks reported seeing something explode on the moon.2
  • On this day in 1638, a lunar eclipse occurred, the first astronomical event recorded in America.3
  • In 1950, North Korea invaded South Korea, beginning the Korean War.4
  • In 1951, the first commercial color TV program was a show presented on CBS using the FCC-approved CBS Color System. The public did not own color TV’s at the time.
  • In 1966, the tv show Dark Shadows premiered on ABC.
  • In 1989, 1st US postmark dedicated to Lesbian & Gay Pride (Stonewall, NYC) is issued.
  • In 1993, Kim Campbell became the first woman prime minister of Canada, after Brian Mulroney stepped down. Campbell went on to lead the Progressive Conservatives to their most humiliating electoral defeat that October, winning only 2 of 295 seats.5
  • And finally, June 25th marks the anniversary of the passage of 1910′s Mann Act. From this day forth, I will encourage every one to celebrate my birthday by transporting a girl across state lines for immoral purposes.

People should feel free to send me such messages, gifts, or naughty photos as they like. 😉


  1. I have no idea what this is about, but it just sounds cool – reminds me of the Star Trek episode Dharmok 

  2. I had nothing to do with it. I was elsewhere at the time, and there are witnesses to prove that. 

  3. Again, I had nothing to do with it. 

  4. No really, I was at lunch with my girlfriend. I was nowhere near Asia. 

  5. Thanks to Joe Isham for the additional information. 

Friday Five Digest

Five things from the previous week worth highlighting.  This particular week it’s all videos, but in future weeks it might be articles or other items of general interest

Boba Fett Isn’t Dead

Boba Fett Isn’t Dead
TTTO: “Bela Lugosi’s Dead” by Bauhaus

Red on green Mandalore armor
Back on the track

Boba Fett isn’t dead
The hunter left the sarlaac pit
The Jedi have all fled
Skywalker downs the sand skiff

Boba Fett isn’t dead
Boba Fett isn’t dead
Not dead! Not dead! Not dead!
Not dead! Not dead! Not dead!

The bounty hunters file past his tomb
Strewn with time’s lost contracts
Adrift in spacial slip
Alone on a darkened ship
The clone

Boba Fett isn’t dead
Boba Fett isn’t dead
Boba Fett isn’t dead
Not dead! Not dead! Not dead!
Not dead! Not dead! Not dead!
Not dead!

Oh Boba
Boba’s not dead
Oh Boba
Boba’s not dead

Boba’s not dead
Oh Boba
Boba’s not dead
Oh Boba

Boba Fett is an interesting character. He has about 20 minutes of screen time and five lines of dialogue in the original Star Wars trilogy, and still became one of its most enduring and popular characters. I can’t really think of anything else quite like it in popular culture.

If you’re like me and your Star Wars knowledge is primarily limited to the films, you may be unaware of the complex storyline that Boba Fett is at the centre of. In particular, you may not be aware that the character did not die in “Return of the Jedi”, but in fact escaped his fate and went on to have many more significant adventures in what is called the “Expanded Universe” of Star Wars lore.

I don’t recall with whom I was chatting about Star Wars (though I have a vague memory it was either Bryan Provost or Nigel Cox), but their reaction to my comment about Fett dying in RotJ was a forceful “Boba Fett isn’t dead!”, which managed to connect to the iconic refrain of this classic Bauhaus song. Not sure what to do with it, it sat in my unfinished songs folder for weeks, until the rest of it presented itself to me.

If you’re unfamiliar with the original tune and want to skip to the bit that has words in, jump to the 2:50 minute mark of the video linked above.

UPDATE (2020):  In a curious twist of fate, the TV series “The Mandalorian” has made this song canon. 🙂

Party Of Four

Party of Four
by Rob Wynne and Jeffrey Williams
TTTO: “All Along The Watchtower” by Bob Dylan

I just don’t see a way into here
Said the cleric to the thief
This keep is too well defended
With its iron and stone motif
All these walls are much too high
The courtyard far too wide
Unless you’ve somehow learned how to fly
There is no way inside

No reason to get discouraged
The thief he softly spoke
There are many doors to pass through
And all these locks are but a joke
But you and I, we’ve fought the hordes
their treasure is our due
So let us not speak loudly now
It’s time to sneak on through

Down below the watchtower
There was a secret door
While the guardsmen paced and prowled
Inside slipped the four

Deep inside the cold dungeon
A wandering monster passed
The warrior pulled out his sword
And the mage began to cast

Another Dungeons and Dragons filk, this one started by Jeff with the opening lines, which he sent me in an instant message a few weeks ago.  While the song is by Dylan, the filk is most certainly of Jimi Hendrix’s iconic cover.  Now if only I could actually play it like that. 🙂

Same as it ever was, same as it ever was

Today in a Facebook thread, someone made a comment which expressed a theme I’ve seen quite frequently in recent years, usually in lists with titles like “You know you’re a child of the 80s if…” (or 90s, or 70s, or whatever childhood decade the author is being nostaligic for):

Since we are going to date ourselves like that, I remember when they didn’t have to put “do not try this at home” because we weren’t stupid

Speaking as someone approaching my 43rd trip around the sun, it’s a comforting notion.  These Kids Today need to be warned not to do things which are obviously dangerous that we would never needed to be warned not to do them!12

I did get curious, though, as to how long this particular admonition had been a part of the culture.  I wasn’t able to pin down an actual origin, but thanks to the website TV Tropes, I was able to find many examples from the past there,3 including:

  • Every instance of someone climbing into the eponymous wardrobe in CS Lewis‘s first Narnia book, The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe, is accompanied by the narrator’s remarks on how dangerous it is to close oneself into a wardrobe, how smart Lucy and Peter are to leave the door ajar, and how foolish Edmund is to close it on himself — no doubt to prevent children from getting themselves trapped in wardrobes while trying to emulate the Pevensies.
  • Back in the 1960s Bob Monkhouse‘s Mad Movies frequently had Monkhouse telling kids never to copy dangerous stunts from silent movies.
  • The real-life Trope Namer was the late motorcycle stunt man Evel Knievel, who on his numerous televised death-defying feats in the 1970s included the same disclaimer: “Kids, don’t try this at home.”
  • That’s Incredible was famous in the early 1980s for the use of this phrase to disclaim its many stunts, which was understandable considering how many real stuntmen were injured appearing on the show
  • Bill Nye the Science Guy: “Do not, I repeat, DO NOT attempt this demonstration at home!”
  • At the end of every Gladiators episode.

Since the Lewis book came out in 1950, it’s been A Thing for longer than most of can claim to be passengers on Starship Earth.  Of course, the very fact that it’s become a trope has led to a lot of lampooning the trope, which has led to the idea that this is somehow a new thing that never happened before. But it’s been around for pretty much as long as there’s been media that shows things one might ought not try at home (or, indeed, anywhere.)4


  1. Of course, this is nonsense.  I remember when a friend and I, left alone in my grandfather’s workshop, figured out we could attach his equipment winch to our belts and hoist each other up in the air and be flown across the room on the rail it was attached to — over a concrete floor littered with iron and steel apparatus  And I was a reasonably bright child. 

  2. No one got hurt, aside from the spanking we got when we got caught at it. 

  3. If you had somehow managed to get this far in your life without discovering the TV Tropes website, I’m sorry.  We’ll see you in a few days. 

  4. If anyone might have better luck in finding the first citation of the phrase, I’d love to know it.  I’m genuinely curious. 

You Won’t Admit You Love Me

Many years ago, I saw a commercial on BBC America for a television show called Coupling.  The commercial made it look like a good laugh, so kitanzi and I decided to give it a look, and completely fell in love with it.  It was quirky, it was funny, it was full of highly entertaining characters, and it very quickly became my favourite situation comedy of all time.  We bought the seasons on DVD, and showed them to pretty much anyone who would sit still for them, to the extent that I can still probably recite entire episodes of the first season from having seen them so many times.  (With only a couple of exceptions, everyone we showed it too also loved it too.)

In 2003, NBC announced they were going to launch a US remake of the show, with an all new cast but retaining the show’s creator and principle writer, Stephen Moffatt (who is now much more widely known for his work on Doctor Who).  We greeted this news with a fair bit of trepidation; the show starred absolutely no one anyone had ever heard of, and the track record of remaking quintessentially British shows in America wasn’t very good in recent years1.  Still, it did have the original writers working on it, and they were putting a lot of effort into promoting it.  How bad could it possibly be?

Fifteen minutes into the first episode, we had our verdict.  It could be very, very bad indeed.  The episode was pretty much a complete script-lift of the first episode of the UK show, which made already inevitable comparisons to the original impossible to avoid.  The dialogue was like a poorly fitted suit, and the actors looked physically uncomfortable with the material.  Every single joke fell flat, and the whole exercise was suffused with a general sense of wrongness.  By the first commercial, we’d pretty much made our judgement, switched it off, and watched the first season of the UK show on DVD again just to wash the taste out of our mouths.  Apparently, that was a pretty universal reaction to the show; it was cancelled after 10 episodes, and is referenced today primarily as a cautionary tale.

Until recently, this would be the end of the story.  I certainly had no reason to revisit my opinion of a terrible TV show with no redeeming qualities 10 years after it aired, did I?   Prior to this year, I’d have scoffed at the notion, and often did.  The US version of Coupling was a punchline, a story to tell children in order to make them behave.  What could inspire me to watch that travesty?

Oddly enough, two other shows sparked my curiosity.  Eureka and Better Off Ted.

I’d heard a lot of good things about Eureka when it was on the air, but I never got around to watching it.  It was another one of those shows that friends and other people who’s taste I generally trust would say generally positive things about, but never so much to make me actually watch it.  I caught one of the Christmas episodes at my mom’s house, and she said a lot of nice things about the show, and I knew that Felicia Day and Wil Wheaton both had recurring roles in later years, which piqued my interest, but not enough to drop into a show I’d never watched in the middle of its fourth season.  When we moved in with runningwolf, it turned out it was one of her favourite shows and she suggested it as a dinnertime viewing selection, so we started with it from season one and it quickly became our go-to programme to watch together.  We’ve gotten up to the last season and I know I’ll be a bit sad to see the end of it, but I’m very grateful to have experienced it.

Better Off Ted was a criminally short-lived comedy that I first heard about from markbernstein.  It got two half-seasons on ABC, and while it was well received by critics, no one watched it and it died of low ratings.  Because of Mark’s recommendation2, I had added it to my Netflix queue as a thing to watch one day, and a couple of weeks ago, when kitanzi suggested we watch “something funny”, I pulled it up and said “I hear this is good.  Give it a try?”  It was a good choice.  Better Off Ted‘s absurdist satire is right up my alley, and watching it now, long after its exit from the airwaves, I can only wonder how badly it must have been promoted to have not taken off.  Terrific cast, snappy writing, and innovative breaking of the fourth wall.  If you’ve not seen this show, go watch it.  It’s worth your time.

As I often do when watching some new show that I hadn’t seen before, I glanced through IMDB to see what else I might have seen various actors in.  Sometimes I just do this because they look vaguely familiar, and sometimes because I figure if I like someone in something I might like them in something else.  And it was here that I discovered that Tim Harrington, who plays the lead in Better Off Ted, was also Steve in the US version of Coupling.  And not only that, but Colin Ferguson  who plays the lead in Eurkea, was Patrick.

“Wow,” I thought.   We’d not heard of either of them when that aired.  I wonder if it would be interesting to rewatch that, just to see those two in it now that we know who they are?

I resisted this notion for a while.  I mean, that show as terrible.  Everyone knows that.  And watching actors you like in a painfully bad production is never fun.  Is it?

I decided to test the notion.  Searching around the dark corners of the underweb, I found the 10 episodes of Coupling US, which had been capped from a European cable channel called Canal+, complete with, of all things, subtitles in Swedish.  I decided that if I was going to review this, I was going to commit to it, and watch all ten episodes, rather than just bailing on it like I did the first time.  I’m glad I did, because the first three episodes are still painful.  Each was a remake of an episode of the UK series, and they suffer from the same problems I’d observed in my first viewing of the pilot ten years ago:  bad timing, poor execution, and generally flat lifeless storytelling.

But in the fourth episode, something amazing happened.  Rather than being a forklift of an existing episode, it was an entirely original script.  With dialogue written for them, the actors for the first time looked comfortable in their roles, the jokes popped, and I found myself genuinely laughing at the show for the first time.   Given the freedom to create their own parts rather than simply copying their British counterparts, the show relaxed and started to gel into something that could stand apart from its origins.  Tim Harrington’s Steve isn’t nearly so flustered and panicked as Jack Davenport’s, and Colin Ferguson’s Patrick isn’t quite as thick as Ben Miles3.  Christopher Moynihan’s Jeff lacks the fundamental weirdness that Richard Coyle possessed, but manages to bring the part a certain self-awareness that humanises the part, while Lindsay Price’s Jane is more grounded (and, in many ways, more predatory) than Gina Bellman.   Rena Sofer manages to play Susan as less uptight and a bit more wounded, and while Sonya Walger never really did manage to do much with the part of Sally, there were signs she was developing into a more interesting character too, particularly in the Christmas episode.  By the time the final episode rolled around, I found I was genuinely enjoying the show – not as a remake of the original, but as something new that had striking similarities to the programme which inspired it, but which nevertheless stood on its own.

I’m not going to try and convince you that the US remake of Coupling was great.  It suffers from a lot of the problems that all sitcoms do, and is wildly uneven, especially when it tries to go back to the recycled scripts well in episodes like “Foreign Affairs” (which lifts from “The Girl With Two Breasts”) or “Dressed”, but even those have enough new material mixed in that they aren’t entirely unbearable.  As a series, it doesn’t approach the genius of its predecessor  but there are individual episodes which indicate that given enough time to find it’s own rhythm and its own voice, it could have been a fine series in its own right.

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1And Coupling is in many ways quintessentially British.  A common reaction to it when we were first watching it was “You’d never get away with that on American television.”

2Aside from Better Off Ted, Mark turned me onto So You Think You Can Dance and a few other shows.  As a result, I value Mark’s recommendations very highly.

3Its amusing, at times, to imagine that Steve and Patrick here are in fact younger versions of Ted Crisp and Jack Carter.  It doesn’t really hold up in the long run, but it’s still funny.

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